For One Special Week

Joel Lampert, PsyD |

06/24/2026

There is something extraordinary that happens at Camp Ukandu.

For one special week, in one very special place, the things that brought everyone together—the diagnoses, the treatments, the losses, the scans, the scars—are allowed to rest for a while.

And people simply get to be human with one another.

No labels. No barriers. No explanations required.

The child who has spent months in the hospital becomes the kid who finally conquers the zip line.

The teen who worries about how others might see their body after surgery jumps into the river without hesitation.

The camper whose legs don’t work rides a mechanical bull because, of course, they do.

Anxiety loosens its grip just enough to try something new.

Judgment is left at the gates.

And what remains is something deeply, beautifully human.

This week, I watched campers step onto a stage and perform with a kind of courage that cannot be taught. They sang. They danced. They laughed until they cried. They cheered for one another with the kind of enthusiasm that only exists when people genuinely want to see others shine.

I watched children and teens find special mentors–adults who saw them fully and loved them exactly as they were. Sometimes it happened during a quiet conversation under a tree. Sometimes while weaving a special project. Sometimes while simply sitting side by side, saying very little at all.

I witnessed grief. I witnessed healing. I witnessed a community hold both at the same time.

At camp, we speak openly about the people we miss and the hard things we carry. There are tears and memories and moments when the weight of childhood cancer feels impossibly heavy.

And then, somehow, there is laughter.

There are innumerable games of Gaga Ball.

There is dancing.

There are so many hugs.

There is a child who decides to try the climbing wall.

There is a community that says, over and over again:

You don't carry this alone.

What happens at Ukandu is radical empathy in action.

It is the willingness to sit beside another person's joy and pain without trying to fix it.

It is the deep understanding that every person here has been changed by cancer and yet is so much more than cancer.

It is extraordinary altruism–hundreds of volunteers, medical professionals, mental health experts, and community members giving their time and hearts simply because they believe these children and families deserve joy.

And it is collective resilience.

Not the kind of resilience that says, "Look how strong you are."

But the kind that says:

"When you are tired, we will carry you."

"When you are hurting, we will sit beside you."

"When you are celebrating, we will celebrate with you."

"When you forget who you are, we will remind you."

One camper told me they look forward to camp "all year long."

I believe that.

Because camp is more than an event.

It is a place where children remember they are brave.

Where siblings feel understood.

Where parents exhale as they drop off what is most precious to them–their children.

Where grief is witnessed.

Where hope quietly returns.

And where unconditional love is not just spoken about—it is practiced in a thousand small moments.

Another camper summed up their experience with this beautiful poem:

A poem written by a camper

As camp concluded, I now find myself carrying profound gratitude for what this community continues to teach us.

Healing is rarely a solitary act.

It happens in relationships.

It happens when people show up for one another.

It happens when we create spaces where every person can be fully seen, fully known, and fully loved.

At Ukandu, we know what medicine can do for cancer.

We are endlessly grateful for the physicians, nurses, researchers, and treatments that make survival possible.

But we also know something else.

We know that children and families need more than medicine to heal.

They need joy.

They need belonging.

They need connection.

They need places where they can simply be human.

We hope you'll join our community and help us continue providing healing outside the hospital.

Because for one special week–and, increasingly, throughout the entire year–we get to witness something remarkable:

Hope, joy, and connection are powerful medicine too.